Why people are unhappy? A lot of people are unhappy and they never think about why they are unhappy.We are different but in some way, we are the same because we each have our own worries and sorrow that rarely can be understood by others. Getting richer is definitely not a good way to guarantee happiness as I saw those people who earn more money than me are more stressful and worry intensively. I like to listen to people’s complains from casual chatting which make me understand how lonely we are and how useless to focus on my own problems.
There are so many difficulties and stress every day: sometimes I have been unfairly treated or I have committed some mistakes which earns me a criticism; sometimes I merely feeling bad or get sick; sometimes I have emotionally mishandled an incident and things turn out to be nasty; sometimes I just feel too tired to do anything and feel all the works are futile. But when you feel low, think about the whole human specie and the history, all our own sorrow will minimised and become unimportant.
Love can bring one out of blue and comfort one’s heart softly. To me, I never experience this kind of love until I married my husband. Before I reckon love is passionate but consume our energy and stir our emotion too frequently. Love is a time-consuming game that makes one weak and even causes desperation and sorrow . But strong and healthy love, when I found out, actually has power to cure our loneliness and self-concentrated sorrow. You will know that there is always a person that cares about you, cherishes you the most and regards you as an important existence in the world. Individual is a tiny seed in the enormous universe, all our hard work, our seek for knowledge and our desires to success are next to nothing. Only love can bring us the feeling that we are important, valuable and worth existing in this world. Love makes us want to live and we would keen on living happily.
Every day I feel tired after work, but when I see my husband waiting for me in the station, I will feel warm in my heart, like having sunshine in winter days. Every night we prepared our simple dinner, chat, read and finally retire to bed. At the end of the day, a kind of satisfaction and happiness will conquer the accumulated tiredness and loneliness. Then, “tomorrow is another day”!